What to Do to Help Sister's Twins?
We just found out over Christmas that my sister is expecting; in January she called to say they're expecting twins. They live in California, so I can't exactly bring them dinner very easily, and we're hoping to be pregnant soon also, so we might not even be able to fly easily to see them (we also have two older boys). That said, moms of twins, what truly helped you? She is a social worker and her husband has applied to grad school in architecture (which he's now assuming he won't do, even if he gets accepted; daycare is about 2000/kid/month...