If you do like to be in the middle of everything and can afford it, then living right in the Galleria would be ideal to avoid the commute. But if you prefer to be away from the city life in a more family-oriented area, then there are many to choose from in the Houston area, but most of them will come with a decent commute.
I'm no expert on the areas closest to the downtown/galleria area, but I just wanted to put my 2-cents work in about The Woodlands. My husband worked in the Galleria for several years, and he did get tired of the commute, but he said he would do it forever if he had to, in order to stay in The Woodlands. It is a very family-oriented place. There is a fantastic variety of price ranges and styles in homes. You feel like you are tucked away in a forest, but everything is so convenient (especially in the sections closest to the freeway, like Cochrans' Crossing, Panther Creek, Indian Springs and College Park). We have a great mall area with a Riverwalk that is still somewhat under construction. Right next to the mall is Market Street, which has an HEB Market and many high-end stores and restaurants, plus a common area where kids play. They also just put in an upscale food market, bistro and Viking cooking school called Hubble & Husdon right next to the big movie theater. LOVE this new store!!!
We also have an abundance of great parks, all of which can be accessed by over 100 miles of hike & bike trails that follow along just about every road and through every neighborhood in The Woodlands. There are concert venues, wonderful schools (public & private), great restaurants, and it's still growing every year.
Anyway...we just love it here. We've lived here for 11 years and absolutely love it. My husband has had several job offers that would have had us moving to another city, but we just can't seem to make the move. He turned them all down and eventually started his own company so he wouldn't even have to leave for work each day. Hahaha!!!
Again, there are many places in the Houston area that could be great for your family. But since I only know about this area, I thought I'd give you as much information as possible about it. It's a difficult area to figure out on your own, because the bigger roads running through the town all appear like a drive through a forest of nothing. And if you get off the beaten path in to the neighborhoods, there is a good chance you'll get lost! So I recommend you find a realtor to show you around if you decide to look around at housing. But you could check out the mall area to get an idea of the ammenities.
Okay...I'm on done rambling. Welcome to Houston, and I hope you guys find the perfect place for your family!!
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