R.R.
I have a sister that lives in another state. Her son and DIL live less than a mile away. Apparently, my sis and my nephew's wife do not see eye to eye. (This nephew's wife talks to me privately). Anyway - she hit a wall with my sister and now just doesn't go over there. She sends her hubby to his parents house with the grandkids, she doesn't go. She doesn't answer the phone when MIL calls. She just basically has no contact. It works for them, and it doesn't eat at the niece anymore. My sister gets what she wants, which is her son and grandkids, after all, she has her own daughter and another daughter in law that kiss her butt, she doesn't need this one. :-)