Dad's Ashes

Updated on January 22, 2011
G.G. asks from Jal, NM
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My dad died a couple of years ago and I had him cremated. I have been holding on to the ashes and think it's finally time I let go. He was born in Colorado and that is where I want to take him for his ashes to be spread. Does anyone know the regulations for taking ashes on an airplane? My parents divorced when I was 15 and I am an only child. I'm an adult, so I don't have to ask anyone what I can or can't do with my dad.

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D.P.

answers from Pittsburgh on

You should be able to take them either in your carry on or checked luggage. Please know this--you cannot just go around (legally) spreading ashes anywhere so just be aware that you might need to use a little....covert thinking & planning depending on your "sprinking destination."
Also there is such a thing as cremation jewelry, and things like sharing urns that allow you to keep a small portion of the remains, should you feel that you would like to do that.
Good luck to you!

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S.H.

answers from Honolulu on

Denise P. gave good suggestions.

For my MIL.... and her Husband's ashes... well she sprinkled it in her garden... under a special tree she planted 'for' him.

Do you have to ask your Mom or other family members, about what you should or can do with his ashes? Would it matter to them?

all the best,
Susan

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L.M.

answers from New York on

My FIL took my MIL's ashes out of the country. He needed all kinds of documentation. I would check with the airline. Also, if you book your flight thru a travel agent, they will be able to assist you.

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K.B.

answers from Rochester on

Two years ago, I took my husband's ashes to Colorado for his final resting place. I had the container in my carrry on, and a letter from the funeral home attesting to what it was. They did do a special xray/test of the container, but it wasn't a big deal. It might have helped I that I flew out of a smaller airport, but who knows. Although things might have changed lately. Most airlines' websites DO have a list of rules for transporting cremains.

Denise is right there are "regulations." I received advice from a native while i was out there who has orchestrated the scattering of ashes before, and his advise was "don't ask, don't tell." Just be discreet about it. My mom and I went "hiking" with a backpack, and when we got to the spot, we said our prayers and let him go quietly into the wind. We did wait 'til no one else was in the immediate area, but so many people hike/hang out on the trails/rocks, no one even gave us a second glance.

I did take a few pictures of the spot, and brought home a rock from where I left him :) The rock is on the edge of my garden now.

Good luck and blessings on your journey!

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P.O.

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Contact a funeral home and have them arrange to transport the ashes of your dad. They should be able to take care of the details!

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