Tell the Name or Keep It Secret?
After people ask us what we are having...a boy or girl, their next question without fail is: "What are you naming her?" We have a very hard time thinking of and agreeing on names. But here's the question: to tell or not to tell? When I was pregnant with my first, we found a name we liked and we told people that name. Well, we would get weird looks, snide remarks, or people would tell us not to use that name ... like they had a say or something. It actually kinda ruined the name for us. So when we decided on a different name, we also...