Oh...and you had to ask this on a day when I'm hormonal...
When they cry it's not a vendetta. They don't know how to tell you what their needs are. And it's not personal.
You will be exhausted before it's all over with. And you will look back on those days and wish you had them to do all over again.
You're children will do things that disappoint you at times. It's how they grow. Love them anyway.
You will not have all the answers. Admit that. To THEM. They will trust you more knowing that you too are human.
Your job is NOT to be their friend. It's to be the best parent you know how to be. They will have plenty of friends come and go in their life. They have only ONE mom or dad.
When you are sitting in your car with the monitor on and the radio up full blast crying hysterically because you don't know how to "fix" what ever is wrong with your cholicy baby and her crying makes you want to scream because you are sincerely trying your best...it WILL pass. THIS IS NOT FOREVER. Take that moment. Cry as much as you need. Then get back to it. They need you more than you ever thought possible.
And all they ever really want to know about you is that you love them. And that you tell them every day. And that when they fall you will be there to pick them up.
And when you least expect it...and you're at your wits end...and you think you're world has tilted off it's axis and you can't take it another minute...a tiny hand will touch you...and say...I love you mommy...and wrap their arms around you...
And you will find the strength to go further than you ever thought humanly possible.
So...I'm gonna go cry for a while now. My bosses think I've lost my mind.
Smiles to you hun...