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I am kind of concerned when you say it's not a bitter divorce but he is in the house and you have yours somewhere else. Why did he get to keep the house and I am wondering why you didn't stay with your daughter and have him move out so your daughter could feel secure? I am not trying to judge here I am trying to figure out if you are both worried about her what if she just remains in the home all of the time and you two be flexible about who stays there when.I was divorced some years back and it was a very difficult situation. So I removed us (myself and two children) because it was uncomfortable to remain there. If you have a smooth divorce and are friends, it might be in the best interest of the little girl to have her remain in her home all of the time. She will know that you are a family no matter what whether you explain it or not she already knows you are not together all the time.I know that would be hard on you, but divorce is usually pretty hard anyway on kids so that might help Just a thought.