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GOOD for you, J..
You are doing the right thing, by getting her a Pediatric Psychologist.
I know a woman that was going through a divorce. She was a Counselor herself. But she got her 2 kids, (who were toddlers at the time), a Therapist to help them through it and to help them, cope. In a well balanced proper way.
She said it was the BEST thing, she did for them.
And it was objective help for her kids, because as a Mom, she was also very stressed with everything else. And she wanted a professional, to help her children. They are now older, and did not suffer because they had professional help. They were attending it for about 2 years.
So know that is it not just a couple of weeks type of thing.
And she and her 2 daughters, are close still and they had her help and her looking out for them. Versus her Ex, which was a jerk.