H.S.
That was then, this is now!
I could never keep myself from sharing good news. and if the result became bad news... hey they asked :) It is part of making a new life. the yin and yang of life... like you can't crash a car unless you are actually driving cars.
The american world pretends everything is fine at all time. you ask each other " How are You ?" yet the answer is always the same " fine or good" should people actually become more real they would give you the truth... which is not always pretty.
I believe in assuming people are genuine around me, and tell things as they are. "Yes I am pregnant, very happy and super worried it won't take...I will keep you posted" is the perfect answer.