I have several perspectives on this. First I agree with Bonnie S, she M. very well blame you later if she can't see her half siblings. Also if you handle this right you and she will have a whole other way to connect, speaking about her feelings when she encounter's this other family. Remember these are her relatives too, she M. feel something is wrong with her if she's unable to see them, if you let her see them and something happens, she will only appreciate you more and see for herself why she M. not need to see them. Just make sure she's safe.
I have two daughters with extended family situations like this, my oldest granddaughter was in this same situation with her dad (she's 9) her dad came into her life two years ago as far as she can remember, she knew her half siblings, her dad just never bothered with her. My daughter has always made sure that her half siblings were in her life, in fact she is pretty good friends with the mother's of all her kids half siblings (My daughter has a very long story herself), the kids have sleep overs, go to birthday's, etc. My other daughter is raising her step-daughter's and they are beginning to see that the other family is not so desirable, on their own they have decided this, yes I'm sure this has hurt them, but they go to their step-mom and see that she has only done what is right. They have been allowed to come to this decision on their own without any bad talk about their other family.
Within the past 5 years my family has reconnected with a lost branch of our family. Someone was doing a Tree and found that after my grandmothers dad divorced her mother he moved and had 12 other kids!! We knew he had another family, but not the extent, we also found that the other kid's didn't know he had ever married before. It was sad for all of us that my grandmother didn't reconnect with her dad or know any of these lovely people that we've met. They now come to our family reunions and try to fill us in on some of their stories. I'd hate to think that any of my kids would miss out on some of the relationships they could have.
My advice is to get in touch, by email, not Facebook and share pictures by posting them to a site like Walmart or Walgreens, you can make a site that each of you know the login information and both sides can post pictures and any good ones they can order themselves. I hope you make the right decision for you daughter, good luck.
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I have several perspectives on this. First I agree with Bonnie S, she M. very well blame you later if she can't see her half siblings. Also if you handle this right you and she will have a whole other way to connect, speaking about her feelings when she encounter's this other family. Remember these are her relatives too, she M. feel something is wrong with her if she's unable to see them, if you let her see them and something happens, she will only appreciate you more and see for herself why she M. not need to see them. Just make sure she's safe.
I have two daughters with extended family situations like this, my oldest granddaughter was in this same situation with her dad (she's 9) her dad came into her life two years ago as far as she can remember, she knew her half siblings, her dad just never bothered with her. My daughter has always made sure that her half siblings were in her life, in fact she is pretty good friends with the mother's of all her kids half siblings (My daughter has a very long story herself), the kids have sleep overs, go to birthday's, etc. My other daughter is raising her step-daughter's and they are beginning to see that the other family is not so desirable, on their own they have decided this, yes I'm sure this has hurt them, but they go to their step-mom and see that she has only done what is right. They have been allowed to come to this decision on their own without any bad talk about their other family.
Within the past 5 years my family has reconnected with a lost branch of our family. Someone was doing a Tree and found that after my grandmothers dad divorced her mother he moved and had 12 other kids!! We knew he had another family, but not the extent, we also found that the other kid's didn't know he had ever married before. It was sad for all of us that my grandmother didn't reconnect with her dad or know any of these lovely people that we've met. They now come to our family reunions and try to fill us in on some of their stories. I'd hate to think that any of my kids would miss out on some of the relationships they could have.
My advice is to get in touch, by email, not Facebook and share pictures by posting them to a site like Walmart or Walgreens, you can make a site that each of you know the login information and both sides can post pictures and any good ones they can order themselves. I hope you make the right decision for you daughter, good luck.