R.C.
how about a spa pedicure? i like the pedicures better than a massage. i also have taken myslef out to dinner/lunch. i like to walk around the botanical gardens or the art museum. they are quiet. a good yoga class does the trick. try yoga source on big bend, or big bend yoga on lockwood/n. gore. i am not a big exercise freak, but always feel much better after i get my body moving. local rec centers and the ymca have some great classes.
i really like a two martini lunch with a friend.
i think it is wondeful to take a little "me" time.