M.B.
Hi A. :)
I feel like I don't know enough details to be completely sure--but it sounds like he's just going through the typical disrespectful phase all teens seen to go through at one point or another. Hang in there! It will pass! :) It wouldn't hurt to buy some books on dealing with teens too. If you don't benefit from them, you'll know you're not alone--- and of course, prayer helps. ;)
As far as being new to the area--I am too. (4 weeks) and also from california. ;) I started a mother's group here and it's helped a lot. You're welcome to join if you're interested. ;) (Assuming you arn't far from Little Rock hehe) http://sahm.meetup.com/2250/
Best of Wishes,
M.