Marriage - Porter Ranch,CA

Updated on November 15, 2008
M.M. asks from Porter Ranch, CA
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Hi Ladies.

You guys are great and wanted to hear your thoughts on this please.

I found two sites on my husbands computer.(I was using his laptop because my battery dies on my computer)...one is called popoholic.com and egotastic.com.. I think they are sex or playboy type sites... Not exactly sure.. check it out.. If you found this on your husband(married over 10yrs and 2 kids)computer what would you think? OR, what would cross your mind...

I appreciate any thoughts...Because right now my blood is boiling and feel sick to my stomach. Thanks... Mel

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J.N.

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Popoholic.com seems to be pages on celebrities that show very little nudity. Egotastic seems to be yet another celeb site. Sounds like your man has a celeb sweet tooth. I wouldn't worry, the sites he is going to don't really seem to be a big deal, well at least not to me.

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J.M.

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Hi M.:
Take a deep breath,and keep in mind,that jumping to conclusions,can only result in bad feelings and suspicion. First, if your on the internet enough, your aware, of some of the sites that pop up,when your searching. My gosh, I've done a search on disney and all sorts of porno came up. No joke! I thought..What sicko did that? Kids will see all that! So, your husband could have come along those sites by another search. From what I can see, these aren't porno sites. They are celebs. If this is all you saw on your husbands pc. I wouldn't say a thing. You don't want him getting the impression your prying,or that you don't trust him. Has he done something to make you worry or wonder? If not, forget about it,and move on. I wish you the best.

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C.M.

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well if they are those kind of web sites why be mad? They r only fake women with no class. Maybe he just likes to look at them. Looking at they don't hurt nothing..I have been married to my husband for 15 years and he can look all he wants as long as he knows that I do not and will not be okay with him fooling around with anyone else. But him looking will not hurt it just makes it more fun for you.. It is just a little spice And that never hurts in a long marriage that is going to be there for a long time..

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J.L.

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Hi M., I would make sure you know what thoae sites are before you go to your husband, personally I have never heard of those sites, if they are what you think they are, when you appraoch your husband, don't attack, just ask him in a loving manner. you can catch more bees with honey than with vienegar. J. L.

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S.A.

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Personally, it doesn't seem all that bad to ME, but that doesn't really mean anything since YOU are the one married to him!
If it bothers you, talk to him about it! But if I were you, I would try my best not approach the subject "angrily" or else he will just get all defensive and then you won't get the answers you really need/want anyways...

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S.H.

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Glad to hear its just a pop site!

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