Hi J.
I was in a similar relationship with my son's father. Like you I moved in when I got pregnant. We lived in a very expensive condo. I was temping for work so no health ins. He was self employed. He didn't mind spending time with me, but we had no money and didn't do anything anyway, so he spent all his time on the computor. He was so caught up in this business with his partner that all his time and extra money went to his friend. I paid all the bill, except the rent (his mother paid that). I wasn't happy. soon after our son was born we dicided to get married, a year later. I called the whole thing off. I wanted to be a stay at home mom for a year, but instead had to go back to work as soon as my son turned 12 weeks. my EX played video games all day long while I did everything else. Once I started working he was home with the baby 1 week then called me at work and said he couldn't take the crying so he had him mother (who lived 1 hour away) come stay with us. She did all the cooking and cleaning but I didn't want that. So finally after a year of anxiety, my aunt passed away, he was there for me, but still said he couldn't deal with my family, so I left. Now another year later. He is working and making good money. He has gone back to school, and despretly wants me back. I still love him, but if I hadn't left he never would have changed. So you should talk to your boyfriend, and tell him how you feel, let him know that you are not happy and may leave if he does not change. In the end you and that baby are the most important thing, if you are not happy, the baby wont be either. Hope that helps, and good luck.