Just the fact that you are aware of the fact that your youngest needs attention and love means that having a third will be just fine. Having three is a bit of a juggle at first because you only have 2 hands, but it works out. Your current youngest develops a newfound sense of responsibility as you include them in helping out, giving hugs, holding or even helping with the bottle if you do that sort of thing. Rather than becoming needier, ultimately, they develop greater independence and self confidence. There is nothing quite like the unconditional love of a baby to make a sibling feel loved. All you need to do, which I'm sure you would anyway because you are aware, is to include your other children.
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Just the fact that you are aware of the fact that your youngest needs attention and love means that having a third will be just fine. Having three is a bit of a juggle at first because you only have 2 hands, but it works out. Your current youngest develops a newfound sense of responsibility as you include them in helping out, giving hugs, holding or even helping with the bottle if you do that sort of thing. Rather than becoming needier, ultimately, they develop greater independence and self confidence. There is nothing quite like the unconditional love of a baby to make a sibling feel loved. All you need to do, which I'm sure you would anyway because you are aware, is to include your other children.