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I(t's time to make her earn all good things other than food, bed and basic clothes. Hitting you is absolutely against all rules. No treats, TV or anything she enjoys on a day she has done this. If you still have problems, extend it to 2 days. Remove everything from her room that she could entertain herself with. She must earn the good things. When she starts throwing things that's time for her to go to bed because your "DR" told you she does this because she's overly tired. Early bedtime on any bad day. You are the boss and must insist she do as you say even if you have to put her back in the bed 20 times. You must be totally consistent . V.