Hi G.,
Welcome to my friends list if you would like. Since moving from Calif. I have found that Colorado is not only colder in climate at times, but there are not the same kind of people here, except the new friends I found at church. My family and I have lived here for 4 years. Tried to be a good neighbor, and have been snubbed by one, ignored by another, reported on by another and "used" so far 4 times from one of them. I watched a neighbors 4 show dogs, administering medications to three of them in the span of 4 months. First I was given a bottle of wine as a "Thank-you", the second time 100.00 (for watching them 3 days) and the third time for 4 days, just a thank you card. The last time, (and I do mean last time), I watched them for a week (each time this neighbor was out of town.) It snowed to beat the band, and my van got stuck in her driveway, it was freezin cold. I never expected anything, but since she did bless me for doing this for her for less days, I thought I might get a token of her appreciation...Nada, nothing. I wanted to be her friend, but she does not have time for me unless she needs something.
So called friend #2, was my mail lady. She seemed like a good friend, until she offered to do something for me involving a purchase I was making on a horse. She offered to evaluate him for me, (as she said she had once worked for Wayne Newton's Arab Ranch,)she never showed up to see the horse, (I was out of town at the time.) Then she lied and made excuses for why a no show, and then told me she was going to do it in a day or two and still did not show, and then did not answer my calls. It has been 4 months. Guess she feels guilty or embarrassed, even though I still try to e-mail her as a friend with no response. She just forwards stuff to me, without comment.
SO with all that said, the only place that I have found real comfort is within my church friendship group through Southeast Christian Church on Jordan Rd. It has been about 4 months now.We meet every tow weeks, but it is not the same as going out for lunch or breakfast like the good ol days in Ca.
Just remember "the Lord is our constant friend, our help in times of need. He will always be there for us. Hope you know its true...
Blessings,
C.