It's hard to ask for help when it feels to you like you're whining. Really, though, parenting should be a shared thing. Doesn't mean it has to be exactly 50 - 50, if that doesn't work for you, but don't deprive your husband of that feeling of competence with his child that you only get from experience. If you, like most of us, are better at putting the child to bed or soothing or feeding or whatever, it's only because you've done it more. Give him the opportunity to improve.
When my kids were younger, my husband & I fell into that pattern where I did most of the parenting. Now, years later, my husband envies the closer relationship I have with our kids AND he feels guilty about how he treated me & the children when they were younger. Think of it this way: that brownie is helping your wonderful husband to feel better as a Dad (he just may not realize it yet).
Good for you for loving your husband enough to respect the effort he already puts in to his working day. Now, love him, your child and yourself enough to take a balanced look at things & parent TOGETHER.
Coffee ice cream on brownies is the best. Enjoy -- & then bring him one once the baby's down.