A.S.
I used to yell at my kids. I used to get yelled at myself. Insted of putting so much effort into a verbal warning, why don't you try this. It is GUARANTEED not to fail. It always worked on me and it works on my children. You said that your boys are 10 and 11? P&P! Privleges and prized possessions. Give them a verbal warning to begin with, if they aren't moved then you move them by taking away privleges like television, internet access, playstations, music, comic books cell phones or whatever it is that they have that they treasure and will just die without. You are showing them that you mean business and I am too sure they want their things back, so naturally they are going to comply with whatever you and your husband ask. Try it and let me know how it turns out!!!!! GOOD LUCK