hehe, understand have 16, 11, and 4 yr old here. Everyday I question if I am a "good" mom. Imo, it is a good thing for all of us moms to do so that we watch ourselves regarding being patient with our kids. It is so easy to get into the mommy rut "why change the clothes type attitude". What you read is true, do keep time for yourself EVERYDAY 30 min minimum. For many years it was only about the kids and lost myself (also due to brother getting KIA 12-18-2006)
Remember, like another poster said "we are here to teach them to the best of our ability, LOVE them unconditionally, and provide what we can "reasonably afford". That does NOT mean the latest and greatest items / things on the market. In closing, strive to learn what you yourself feel weak in knowledge and learn to love yourself too.
hugZ T.