Hi, I just came accross pictures of my step daughter on the internet, an i was wondering if this could be considered Child Pornagraphy. One is of her in either a bikini or bra and undies on the back of her mothers boyfriend while he is playing a video game. the other is of her in a bubble bath, she is covered up by the bubbles, but she is laying down in the tub,
Also she is 6 years old, not a baby. Then all the other pictures are bascailly of her mother quoting ( I'm Drunk)
So heres my question, could this me considered Child Pornagraphy/ can we get the mother for an unfit parent?
Thank you
NO this is not even close to pornolgraphy. Should it be something that is posted on facebook, not in my opinion.
If you think her mother is "unfit", then this along with tons of other documentation, could be a reason for CPS to investigate.
If you had more concrete evidence then I would say of course but seriously you are stretching here. My kids always hang on my husbands back, especially girls. My girls always walk around in their underwear & sometimes not top & we have lots of pics of them in the bathtub with lots of bubbles & no private areas. Was she in the bathtub with her mothers boyfriend? Was he doing something perverted while she was on his back?
If the father doesn't like the pics being put on whatever site you found them on then he needs to ask the mom to take them down & if she doesn't then he can go to the police station & ask them if the pics cross the line.
Parents NEED to be civil with one another. There is a time to get police or CPS involved, you just need to use your head. This only will hurt the little girl even more than she is already hurt by seeing her dad 12 times a year. Ask yourself what your motives are here, is it to get custody to stop paying child support?
pornography = sexually explicit.
lots of things are not pornographic that get people sexually aroused. perhaps someone with a serious problem could look at those pictures and get sexually aroused, but someone with a serious problem could look at pictures of your dog and get sexually aroused.
there is nothing NOTHING sexually explicit about a 6 year old in a typical 6 year old position (playing with an adult, and being in the bathtub are typical 6 year old positions).
It makes me very upset that we are so worried about "protecting" our children that we are hypersexualizing what is incredibly normal child behavior.
Hi Rachel
I think if you are trying to claim that she is an unfit parent you need to gather ALL the facts to show this.
Is this your only evidence to suggest that she is unfit?
If not,and you have your stepdaughters best interests at heart and are trying to protect her in some way then you need to be proactive to help her.
Gather all the information that you have and speak to your local social services about your concerns.
As you know we have all a responsibility to protect our children.
Best of luck
B.
She is 6 and she is wearing a bra? It's probably just a bathing suit...I think this sounds innocent enough to me.
Is it possible you are feeling this way because you are swayed by your own emotions about the drinking and the fact that this is your hubby's Ex wife...are you looking for reasons to get her labeled as unfit?
Well if you found it on the internet... then ANYONE can....and they can e-mail it to others or do whatever they want with it... even find out where the child lives....
Is the Mother, a drunk??? And an unfit parent???
Is this, the posting of these pictures, the ONLY reason you want to get her for being an unfit parent? Or are there other issues, of the Mother being unfit or negligent????
In this day and age, just about anything can be considered pornography even if that is not what it is meant to be. You know all the pictures of babies in the bathtub? Technically, that is considered pornography now...even though it was meant at cute momentos.
Is the picture for public viewing or is it set that only friends are able to view it? Someone needs to talk to her mom about these if everyone is able to view.
I would definately try to. Call Family services and they can start a case and also dig deeper to make sure nothing more is happening
Please don't call anyone other than the parent at this point. Think of how legal action would impact this little girls life (she is the most important person here). It does not seem like anything sexual is happening here. I would ask your husband to contact the Mother and ask her to take off pictures of your stepdaughter on the internet. Since it seems to me that she lacks discretion, it might be better to keep all pictures from being downloaded on any site. Best of luck!
If your husband feels these pictures are suggestive, especially the bubble bath!, then your husband should call his child's mother and insist the images be removed -- he has every right to protect his daughter.
If your husband wants to start a primary custody battle, then see a lawyer with the images and move forward if you have other concerns RE the mother's parenting skills.
Good luck:)
If you are worried I would call SRS & have them look into it. They are the only ones who can say for sure. It seems a little iffy to me.
God bless!
To answer your question: yes!
What does Dad feel? Are u looking for something or is your gut talking to you? Does the Mom really stay drunk? What the boyfriend really like? 6yr old do not wear bras and the 2- peice bathing suit is not called a bikini at that age It is considered a bikini when adults wear them and they really shouldnt. Hope this doesnt have anything to do with child support, cause you signed up for this . get ready for a life long lesson. Unless this mother is a drunk or dopehead, or mentally challenged she is the girls mother, and that cannot be changed . Always keep you r eyes and ears open when it comes to other men and women in this little girls life
