It's time to take both girls to fun activities outside of the home. For example, the nail salon (getting matching nail polish and toe designs), the movies together, grocery shopping, library, beauty salon, etc....Sounds alittle crazy to reward them right? Wrong, what you are doing is re-directing that behavior instead of spending way too much time focusing on it. They fight because each of them get on each others nerves (how dare them): LOL "Train" them to like eachother and encourage them to do so without saying so, and without focusing on their "bad" behaviors toward eachother. Bake Cookies together, paint, etc... I am a Very Big fan of re-directing childrens behaviors. We as Parents should have already figured out that in order for our children's behaviors to change, WE have to CHANGE ours...Good Luck. I'm sure you'll come up with some other ideas as well. As for the TV, Turn on a program, encourage both of them to watch it with YOU, (not eachother), pop some popcorn, make some snacks and sit in the middle of them and keep reminding them how much fun it is for both of them to watch TV with Mommie...How's that for RE-DIRECTION??
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