I am having a hard time with my response to your post. But here it goes.
My son is out. If he had stayed in he would have done 20 years and retired. But if he were still in and wanted to go, I would have to support his wishes. He knew that he put his life on the line every time he is deployed. As a mother it is hard to know that your child might not return from a mission but you make peace with his choice.
As a military family with children who grow up and become members of the military it is a way of life that is hard to explain. You know what might happen. You know that you are making a difference even if it is ever so slight in the world. You move around from base to base without asking why you just do it. You make the best of where you are and live in the here and now.
Perhaps after this deployment he will be able to end his enlistment and get out.
May you have a safe holiday this weekend.
the other S.
Retired Military Wife and Mom