J.B.
First I will say that yes, it is much harder to get a break in Mexico. I lived there for about four years and wow, it is so much harder for the people there. Then if you get a man with a mentality that if he just keeps doing what he is doing one day it will just work out.....disaster. I was close to a family there and the father was like this. He had a paint shop and at one time business was awesome. But you know things changed, the peso fell, life happened, but he didn't adjust. His family went from being pretty well off to the mom trying to sell real estate to make ends meet, living in an unfinished house and just having no money. And in the business he is in I bet he has people not paying, he doesn't pressure them, and it just gets worse and worse. So, no, I wouldn't keep putting money into a bottomless pit, if the business is failing, it is time to jump ship. But he does need work and it is hard to come by there. Is there a shop doing better he could work for? What part of Mexico is he in? Is there a Gigante around that needs a manager, I know it may seem low, but steady income is important. He needs to be confronted with the fact that it is time to think out of the box and make a plan so his family doesn't go under. And always, when you talk to your family over there just remember that we have grown accustomed to a can do attitude, the American way is to make your life happen and we are taught that anything and everything is possible. Over there they still have a strong class system and people don't often just break out and do their own thing. If your mom is a maid, you are maid, if you parents have more resources things are better for you...that is just how it goes there. So don't be too hard on him for not doing better it really is different. But I would try and talk to him about other options. Does he speak English? I made a pretty good little salary teaching English when I was there, enough to live Ok. Who does he know that has a business that is making it? Could he talk to them about a job? So I said ALL that to say, if it were me I would be understanding, stop giving money and try to help with any ideas I could. I would not want to come off judgmental. Good luck, hope things turn around for the family!