C.S.
My son is aggressive as well. He started showing signs around eighteen months to two years, I think. My Mother-In-Law thinks its due to me not spending a lot of time with him and, truth be told, I haven't spent that much time with him or his older brother for two years. That isn't to say that I haven't been a part of their lives at all, I just am not well organized and am having to spend every waking moment cleaning instead of being by their side and playing with them like I thought I would be doing. My oldest child, whom I did spend a lot of one-on-one time with, is quite sweet, so my mother-in-law's theory could have merrit. I try and do things with both like make meals together and read books. I know it isn't much and I try to do more when I can. The good thing is that the boys play with each other while I clean, whiich lessens my guilt and betters their bond. I hope this long, long spiele helps!