i think in my mind i have a great husband mind you he is my second husband....my ex says he is a peace of s*** :( well let me tell yall a little my ex use to hit on me and the childern cuss us all the time wouldnt help me when i was sick r the kids....we ended a 14year marrige over his bad ways....2years later i met my husband now he works 10 to 14 hour days some times 7days a week but when he is home he will help me cook clean do laundry help his step kids with home work....takes out the trash and do yard work and will do the dishes after dinner:) and now my son is turning 16 in april he wanted this 81 trans am he asked his real father for help to get the car he says NO well grant you we aint rich but we live pretty good well my husband calls the guy that has the car and asked him would he take a down payment and we pay the car off in payments guy says sure so we go put the down payment on the car and my hubby is going to pay $100.00 a week till the $1500.00 is paid off:) my ex is very mad at us now lol...he said my scum bucket dont need to buy his son a dang thing well he sure wasnt going to do it so we did.....what do u ladys think who is the scum bucket???? in my eyes i have a keeper wouldnt yall say? sorry so long it just really hurts my feelings how my ex acts grant you yes me and my husband got into it one night and he called me a b**** but that was the only time and he felt so bad he went and bought me roses grant you he has never done me the way my ex did....thankyou ladys
sorry i guess i made it sound like i cared what others thought....i dont because i love my husband dearly and he makes us very happy:) i guess i was just venting lol. my ex was a controling person and still trys to be but that dont work with me r my hubby:) you ladys r always a big help when us women r going threw he** and my son is getting a job this summer to pay for his own gas and ins for the car my hubby told him that will be his b-day gift from us:) i couldnt have found a better father figure for my kids:) like i said my feelings was just hurt over the way my ex acted he couldnt be happy for my son, and yes for the lady that said she hopes im over my ex honey i was over him before i ever divorced him i cant stand the man wish i never knew him lol.. i should have left his sorry butt years and years ago but i didnt want to hurt my kids but i did by stayin:(( so for the ladys that put up with crap from ur hubbys that beat on u cuss u DONT stay for the kids it only hurts them worse....
Sounds like the 2nd time is the charm for you. Nice hubby. Your ex is just jealous and doesn't want your kidds favoring your newe hubby. Congrats on picking a winner this time.
I think your ex sounds jealous. If you are happy and your kids are happy then I would say your relationship works and that is all that matters.
You do have a good man, you also have a tough situation. I highly suggest you quit talking to your ex. You divorced him for a reason. Do what you have to do as far as the custody agreement, but you don't have to talk to him on the phone or in person. You certainly don't need to listen to him talk about your husband.
You already know the answer to this. Sounds like our ex is verbally abusive and disrespectful and continues to be so even after your divorce. I hope you NEVER let him know it bothers you or in the least affects your day. Keep communication to a minimum and to the point
Sounds like you've got a good man now. Your ex is just jealous that your new husband is obviously better :)
So... your ex is jealous of your second husband.
What's the question? LOL
Your new husband sounds like a great guy. Hang on to him.
Why do you care what your ex or anyone else thinks?
The problem here is:
Your Ex is a jerk. You realized that. You Divorced him. He was emotionally abusing you too. He is STILL acting like he can control you. And... you STILL are, getting manipulated by him, because you give credence to all the criticism he tells you.
So, your Ex, is still... able to affect you. Because, you listen to him and let it affect you and your Husband.
Why do you care, what your Ex says?
You know he is a jerk.
your husband sounds like a good man and a good father and your ex is just jealous that he can't man up and be a dad to his kids and someone else is!
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your husband sounds like a good man and a good father and your ex is just jealous that he can't man up and be a dad to his kids and someone else is!
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your husband sounds like a good man and a good father and your ex is just jealous that he can't man up and be a dad to his kids and someone else is!
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your husband sounds like a good man and a good father and your ex is just jealous that he can't man up and be a dad to his kids and someone else is!
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your husband sounds like a good man and a good father and your ex is just jealous that he can't man up and be a dad to his kids and someone else is!
Sounds to me like your EH feels like a POS for not being able/willing to provide for his kid(s) and is resentful of the fact that your DH is able/willing to. The way a lot of men react when they feel "overshadowed" (be it by their own choice, or by circumstances beyond their control) by another man. He's likely jealous and the only way he knows how to handle those feelings is by lashing out at you and your hubby. Best advice, just ignore what he says. Do what you want with your hubby and live your life as best as you can. EH will get over it.
You need to quit letting your ex husband get in your head! He knows how to push your buttons. Don't listen and don't respond to him anymore than you have too. Sounds like your husband is a wonderful man who loves you and your family very much and you need to see that and should not have even had to ask this question! Hang onto him and just ignore the ex. That's all he is trying to do, get you riled up, so if you don't respond he gets no pleasure! Congrats on the new husband!!
sounds like you have a keeper ;) my husband is wonderful like yours he adopted my daughter adn does everything he can for us. as for your ex saying those hurtful things hes just upset that someone is manning up to your kids. dont let it get to you!
your ex husband's tactics are working don't you think? He wants you to doubt him
Focus on your current marriage to this wonderful man you are married to. Don't get put in the middle of this juvenille nonsense. Do what is best for your family. If you DH wants to be a Dad to your kids and he is a good one let him.
Sounds like your ex has a bad case of sour grapes.
Hi, Don't stress the ex. Keep in mind the type of person he is and don't consider anything he says. You already decided he wasn't worth it a long time ago. I have been in the same situation and all your ex is trying to do is continue to cause grief for you. When you talk with him MENTALLY hold your fingers in your ears. I can actually smile when my ex is talking trash without a single nerve twinging because I know there are stupid people in the world and he proves it every time he opens his mouth. :) You don't need others to validate your current husband. You are in your situation and can do that perfectly yourself. Hugs to you!
