J.S.
A., I think you defintely sound like you would like a number 3. Someone once told me, you will never regret having children...3,4,5...but you could regret not having more. I was on the fence about a third, I had a very healthy boy and girl, but I still couldn't imagine my family with only two kids. I have had my third...we are done, but if I had the money, I would have more. Nothing could have made my family more complete. I now have two beautiful boys and a gorgeous little girl in the middle. Also, don't worry about two to three, it was a MUCH easier adjustment than 1 to 2. By the time you would have a third, you will have two great little helpers and one will probably be in school. It is NOTHING to be afraid of.