K.J.
I lived 2 blocks from my ex (his doing) it was 50/50 every other weekend, and one night during the week (dad gets odd weekend, so 1st,3rd,5th, some times there are 5 weekend, he gets them 2 in a row) But at 10 they might recommend that he go every other week, one his, next yours. Holidays still rotate. We are about 6 miles from one another now, things still the same. But unless you agree on something...not sure, you go to the mediator and they try to help you resolve things...LOL.