V.N.
Hi, K....
I haven't thrown a long distance baby shower, but I have done bridal showers that way for my sister and a friend. Basically, I made invitations that went to friends and family who are scattered around (not to the ones who all live in a place where she could actually have them to a physical shower). With my sister's shower, I had people send gifts by a certain date and she opened them at my place on that day with me. We took pictures and she opened them on a webcam so people could sign on and watch live if they wanted to (instructions on how were sent with the invite). With my friend's shower, I asked them to send gift cards and a personal card or note (or lingerie since it was bridal). Then, there were photos taken when she opened that she could email or send to the giver. If you wanted to go that route, you could even send everyone a stamp/address label in with their invite. I can send you a sample of the invite that I made for my friend's shower if you would like. I had them send things to my place because she was coming for a visit, but if your sister lives away, you could have them send things directly to her. It was still fun for the women involved, and they got some fun things from people who might not otherwise have been able to participate. You can send your sister a small box with napkins, balloons, and pre-addressed thank you cards--maybe even a disposable camera for pictures if she doesn't have one handy. Anywho, hope that is helpful. Email me if you want the invite samples. Have fun!
Blessings,
V.