C.M.
I just want to say from experience with my 5 year old that the talking and gentle approach does not work with children with a will to dominate. I tried talking and timeouts for 3 years being very consistent and I thought eventually he would realize I was in control and stop fighting me all the time but by 4 yrs old his anger and rage had me in tears weekly and sometimes daily I wasn't enjoying being a mom and that made me so sad. I recently had a amish man working on my house and got to meet his children I starting to realize I had never seen an Amish child misbehave or be disrespectful ever even in the grocery store were theres almost always a meltdown at some point. I asked him how they got there children to behave so well and him and his wife let me borrow a book called "to train up a child" by mike and Debbie Pearl. I was very skeptical because I had read several books before and felt like I was doing all the things in the book when was the magic going to happen. A few chapters into the book and I felt like every example was me I realized what I had been doing wrong and I was much worse Then I had ever thought. I have since had my third baby and it is easier now then when I just had 1 and I truly am enjoying every minute of them. This book is a miracle worker I just wish I would have found out about it sooner so I wouldn't have made so many mistakes. Believe me do something now before it gets worse. There website is www.nogreaterjoy.org. You will not be sorry.