M.L.
This one is so close to home it is scary. However, first and foremost I want to say what everyone else has said. Back off and let her make her decisions. Quite honestly, that is why I'm here in Indiana. At 31 years old, the person who raised me tries to control every aspect of my life. I married someone he was against me being with and due to his doing everything in his power to keep us separate, I fought hard to be with this man. I married him and had 3 of my 4 children with him. I do not regret having my children and I am still friends with my ex husband. But I know had I been left alone to make my own decisions instead of being "forbidden" to see the person I wanted to be with, I would have seen his faults on my own and made the right decision myself.I know I haven't really said anything new to this thread, but I had to comment because I was in almost the same situation, only that was about 16 years ago...WOW!