Dear G.,
Not sure if this will work or not, but a friend of mine on MySpace had an absolutely beautiful dye job done on her with a very bright pink and then again with blue. It wasn't a complete color, but rather mixed with her natural color and it was stunning. That is what I first noticed about her. (I actually met her at a convention, and her hair was the first thing I noticed and I couldn't help but comment on how beautiful it was!) Anyhow, not sure if you have a MySpace account or not, but her page address is:
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.view...
Hopefully you can see it as her profile pic shows her beautiful hair. This could be an idea for you if you want to do something dramatic, but not completely change the color. Unfortunately, she lives in Arizona, so not sure about where you can get it done, but maybe it will give you some ideas!
Hope this helps a little bit! If you want to chat some more, just send me an email at: ____@____.com
Take care and have a Happy Easter!