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Hi J.,
The other two responses are very good and I'm sure ALL the PAPAs are working hard for the home and family. Still, family must be first and finding a way to make that happen will make everyone happier. It is all about LOVE and FAMILY, so even if you have to cut back on a little spending, its more important to have more "PAPATIME". If Papa can work a little from home, maybe you won't have to cut back and can give a little something to others who are not as fortunate.
Blessings......and Happy Thanksgiving to ALL
Dear J.,
Kim has some pretty good ideas that will probably help. However, neither of you mentioned your husband's participation in your situations.
No matter how hard your husband is working, he needs to reorder his time and spend MORE of it with you and your children.
I suspect his absence (long working hours) from the home is probably contributing greatly to your depression. Does he know how terrible you are feeling? Can the two of you at least start having dinner together?
I hope things get better for you very soon.
PS...You are NOT lame!
Blessings....