Rough Toddler

Sounds like he doesnt know how to interact positively with other toddlers. He wants to play but like most toddlers doesnt know how to begin interaction. Model using phrases like; "Can I play too?" "That looks like fun" "Do you want to play ...... with me?" If he is not talking, continue modeling the phrases for when he learns to talk but add lots of gestures. Teach him the gestures for come here,sit next to me (patting floor) You could try teaching him to grab two toys and offer one to another child. Sounds like pretty common behavior at that age!

How is his speech? Is he talking? How many words does he have? That is probably what is causing the problem, L., that he doesn't have enough words to say what he feels.

Work with him on talking. SAY to him "Use your words" when he starts this stuff. Say to him "Please say excuse me" when he is trying to get past someone. Model it and say it to him when you are moving past him.

When he throws a toy, take the toy away. Same thing if he hits with a toy. Tell him that the toy is in time out now because he threw it/ hit with it.

Kids this age don't actually play WITH each other. They practice what is called parallel play. I would make his play dates pretty short, to be honest. And if you don't have him in mother's morning out, I think that this would be a good time to put him in. The teachers will work with this issue. Between that and his verbal abilities growing, he should move out of this phase as long as you keep swiftly disciplining him and modeling appropriate behavior to him.

Dawn

Perfectly normal stage of development! I joke with two friends about how their almost 2 year olds turned into fist fighters at that age.

He hides his head because he is ashamed. He doesn't want to disappoint you, but at this age, they are biologically programed to use their bodies. So it's our job to give them the words they need instead.

This stage doesn't last long if you just keep on gently correcting him and giving him words to use.

Don't lose sleep over it! He is not even 2! Most toddlers don't really play together. They are oblivious to how their action effects others. Just keep an eye on him and redirect or distract him when he gets rough. Only expect some parallel playing. He will be selfish for a long time. Keep modeling good behavior and rewarding it with praise. Tell him, gentle touches and model it. Teaching him will take years yet so don't expect him to be a 5 yr old at 22 months. Go to the library and get a book like " What to expect, the toddler years". It will give you more realistic expectations. And never compare a girl with a boy!

It is a learning experience. Children learn through all their senses, touch/feel, sight, hearing, taste etc.. My son is still trying to learn.

Ex As an adult we can easily place a cup gently on the table. Your son has not figured out where is he in "space" and therefore when placing the cup down it gets "slamed".. That is the same concept he is doing with his friends. He does not realize how "rough" he is..

It is all normal learning