I think we all have those questions that we read, that stick in our heads. Maybe we forget to 'save' them, forget who, exactly asked them, and cannot locate them later due to time, lots of new questions, etc.
What questions from Mamapedia have "stuck with you" and you feel you remember best/most and wish you had heard the update for it? Why?
Do you try to give an update on your own questions? Do you fill in the SWH?
There was a mom awhile back that was very distressed about having a third boy and thought about abortion for awhile, then she was talking about adoption. I have wondered how her situation played out.
If you don't remember to click "Save this to my bookmarks" (located at the bottom of the question post) or "Save this" (located at the bottom of the answers), you can always use the search feature (located in the blue area at the top of the page at the right under your account info) or check your own answers to questions (if you answered the question - that's under the Q&A tab, then click on "my answers").
As far as checking back, I do from time to time, especially the ones I bookmarked. I wish more mamas would say "What Happened" so we would know if anyone's advise was taken and if it was helpful.
I'm always curious about the "am I pregnant" ones and how people have gotten along after a child death or whether or not they decided to terminate a pregnancy.
I was very concered lately about the lady with the changing hcg levels and the methotrexate shot because of an ectopic pregnancy. My heart ached for her.
I'd be curious to hear from the mama who lost her baby girl Ember during childbirth. She was (and is) on my mind quite often.
I always fill it in. I ALWAYS wish to see what people ended up naming their babies!
The O. post regarding a young boy being bullied by his teacher, even in front of his mom in the nurses office stuck w/ me. As did the O. I asked about last night...twins that didn't survive and an insurance company not wanting to cover the bills that spanned the three weeks following their birth.
I do try to fill in the SWH.
I have wanted to post a question asking about all the holiday drama post that came up the last 3 months. I would like to have known how they turned out? Did anyone put the MIL in place for the New Year?
I don't look back because there are new questions coming by the minute. I scroll down to see which O.'s most interest me and then begin to read...
There was O. though that I was concerned about. There was a woman who was pregnant with her second child and was looking for an adoption agency. I'm not sure if she gave the baby up or not.
This story really touched my heart because of her first born who was, I think around 10. How would he feel about it? This is what I thought.
Well I guess that's all I have to share.
I always wonder what happens with the ones where kids are out of control and wonder if they turn it around or not. And I always feel for the moms with difficult husbands and/or too much on their plates with work and financial struggles. I also tear up every time I hear kids are being bullied at school or acting depressed.
Thanks Rachel D, I guess I never looked at what the "save" thing was for. Hope I remember to use that feature in the future for posts that I want to follow.
A tad late here...
Yes, I will on occasion look to see if an update was posted. If not, I have been known to pm and ask if all is OK. Like buying a snowblower for hubby??? Or the new mommies with very sick babies in hospitals I have PM'd for extra support.
Some questions do truly upset me and I stew about them even when away from the computer b/c I start to believe our world is 'going to hell in a hen basket.' And I don't even know what that means. Like the pregnant mom asking us for abortion information. And the O. mom asking if she was a hypocrite for allowing her 17 yr. old daughter to have sex with the 14 yr. old boy in their home, and she couldn't spell hypocrite...left off the ending 'e.'
That's another post...
And what does SWH mean?
