Private Investigator - Porter,TX

Updated on August 30, 2010
M.P. asks from Porter, TX
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Ok ladies, this is hard for me to post but here goes. My husband has been demonstrating some shady character lately. I believe he is having an affair. Does anyone know of a good Private Investigator within the Kingwood/Humble area?

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H.P.

answers from Houston on

I don't know of one, but I agree that you should ask and talk it out in detail. Maybe you've already tried this to no avail and have resorted to a PI. Have you tried snooping yourself? Without knowing the behavior, I don't know where you would start, but I think that calling him out telling him how you feel and not letting him get away with shadiness is a perfect start.

I hope that you get whatyou need. It sucks when you have to wonder if you even know the person you're living with.

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K.I.

answers from Spokane on

I am sorry I do not know any...just wanted to add, if it were me I would want to do it myself! Find a babysitter, borrow or rent a car and follow his A** around for a few days/nights.

Good Luck!

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A.L.

answers from Oklahoma City on

In my experience, if you feel like he is cheating on you, than he is. That feeling has never been proven incorrect for me and after the first time I learned not to wait for proof. It just drives you crazy and drags things out when you *know* he is cheating but want to wait until you have proof or he admits to it. This is just my experience and I was not married, thankfully! I would do my own investigation and if I found out he was cheating, then divorce him. If it was just a boyfriend then I would dump him as soon as I thought he was cheating, but when you are married I would look for evidence. If he is not cheating, then you need to let him know that you were suspicious of him and talk it out, possibly get a counselor.

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S.B.

answers from Redding on

Private investigators aren't always worth it.
I knew my husband was cheating and contacted a P.I.
He said, "Honey, you already know he's cheating. I'm not going to take your money."
California is a no fault divorce state meaning that adultery is neither here nor there. I could have spent tons of money on "proof", but I already had all the proof I needed. The lies, the people calling from work looking for him and him getting home super late from work telling me he had to work overtime and was with everyody from work having drinks afterwards.
Funny....they told me he was going to get fired if he didn't call and he didn't answer any of my 911 messages on his cell.

That said, "shady" behavior doesn't always mean he's having an affair.
Depending on what "shady" means.
Have you found another woman's earrings in the car? Do people call and hang up when you answer? Does your husband claim to have out of town business trips that his office doesn't even know anything about?
I think you should ask your husband about his shifty behavior, if that's all it is at this point, and see what he has to say before doing anything drastic.

Just my opinion.

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S.B.

answers from Topeka on

Just ask him outright. There is no need to play the guessing game. And no need to pay money for a private investigator. Good communication is key in a marriage.

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J.C.

answers from Anchorage on

Have you tried simply asking him? or her if you know who she is?

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J.C.

answers from Sacramento on

Google it Mom, I'm sure you will find one.

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