A.O.
She is in control of the bedtime situation...you need to take that control back. Tell her it is nap/bedtime, do your usual routine, read a book, sing, etc... then lay her in bed and leave the room. If she gets up put her back. The reason she is putting up the fuss is b/c she's learned that when he does it she gets her way. After she realizes she is no longer in control she will stop the fussing. I also have a 2 year old daughter and have been threw this with her. Be consistant...good luck!