K.B.
I got these off of eHow.com. I too have children with Special needs so I will be in your shoes soon enough. Good luck..
Freeze Dance
Physical games promote motor skills and provide kinesthetic therapy for children with special needs. Host a round of freeze dancing with children to get kids moving and practice listening skills. Play upbeat songs and instruct kids to dance however they wish while the song is on. When you press pause, kids must freeze in place for three seconds; any child who moves is eliminated. Start the music again. Continue eliminating players until one child is left. Play several rounds to give all children a chance to learn and understand the rules.
Party Mixer
Help build social skills with a mingling scavenger hunt. Print out several game sheets with various categories about people at the party. Some categories might be "birthday this month," "has two siblings" or "loves the same food as I." Give each child a game sheet and host a 10-minute mingling session in which children try to find other guests who fit in the categories on the sheet; some children with reading difficulties may need the assistance of an adult. After the mixer, the player who has correctly filled in the most categories wins a prize like a silly party hat or horn.
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