Hi N.,
Boy, my heart goes out to you and every daughter who is trying to take care of her aging parent(s). We moved my parents into Montgomery Place, a continuing care facility, in the Hyde Park neighborhood about a year ago. The facility offers acute care and skilled nursing, in addition to independent living. It's a really nice community, with plenty of interesting people and activities. I don't know if they do dialysis on site, but there are a couple of nearby dialysis facilities that are within a 5 minute drive, and MP can provide transportation. If you get a chance, check it out. We spent 2.5 years trying to convince my parents to move back to the Midwest from northern California, and now they LOVE it at Montgomery Place.
Good luck!
D.