A.D.
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When I was pregnant with my 10 month old my ratios were 1 in 7 for trisomy abnormalities and 1 in 10 for downs. I had a cvs test...they weren't able to gather enough fluid, so then had an amnio...little guy kept moving around so they stopped and did it 2 days later. End result was no genetic abnormalities. My OB had me do a fetal ecocardiogram after the amnio because she said sometimes heart defects could trigger these results. That came back fine too.
On new years eve I gave birth to a beautiful heathy baby boy.
I remeber the waiting to get the tests done and then to get the results...it was the purest form of emotional pain. I too was alone...seperated from my husband soon after I found out I was pregnant.
This will be a hard time for you and my only suggestion is to try to distract yourself. I did a lot of word finds and talked a lot to my family and friends. There's a support website called trisomy.org and the women on there are sooo supportive and knowledgeable.
Many of them have sad stories. But I found comfort in chatting with these women.
Hang in there. You'll be in my thoughts as I remember the hurt and worry very vlearly.
If there's anything I can do, please let me know.
-A.