Not Really a Question Just Jotting down Some Feelings....

Updated on November 15, 2011
E.F. asks from Chattanooga, TN
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Not working anymore. Bad situation at my previous job and my husband told me that I wasn't making enough money to be as miserable as I was. I had been at my previous job for over 8 years and I was still just making a penny more than minimum wage. I loved my job working with children and so I never complained because I loved it so much. Well, over 8 years at this child care center working overtime to cover Ratio issues in my classroom, found child care for my kids for their days off so I could work because I knew they needed it. I left and not a one person in the higher ups gave me a card for my many years there, no thank yous for anything. I felt like it would have been a waste my years there except that I do believe I made a difference in many kids and parents lives. Many parents have still kept in contact with me and tell me I made a difference. My husband was picking up my son from school and I had to have my daughter in after care. I finally left my job of over 8 years and am now able to pick up my children from school!!!!! They love it! I love it!!!! The problem? We need me to work. My husband makes good money at his job, but we are paying for my son to go to a special school for his learning disabilities and though my dad is helping out, we still have to pay the remainder of tuition each month, then we also have a car payment, car insurance, home insurance, mortgage payment, gas bill, electric bill, our cell phone which is also our house phone. (that helps). Let us not forget food and gas for the cars. I love being able to get my kids. I am currently looking for a job. I went on an interview for one at a reputable child care center in my area, and haven't heard from them yet. I am sure the hours will be such that I won't be able to get my kids anymore if I do get the job. Most jobs that have early hours are occupied by people and they aren't looking to leave those hours. I want to work from home, but there isn't any legit at home jobs I can do. I need to work, but I am also loving getting my kids. I wish I had a job like my mom did when I was growing up! She was always able to get me from school. Am loving the time with my kids and not having the worries right now what am I going to do on snow days or days off from school or sick kids. I don't know what to do! =( Still looking for a job, but we will see what happens. Thank you to anyone who reads this! =) Sorry it was so long. E. from Chattanooga

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Thank you to all that responded. I have been so sad lately. My previous boss asked me if I would work my two weeks notice out for her and I said yes. She found someone to replace me right away so she looked at me when I punched in the next day and said "We don't need you anymore. Today can be your last day." I was so sad. The next day I cried. My daughters 1st grade teacher was at the front desk when I was going to get a parent pick up tag for the car and she gave me a hug. I loved my job and I loved the children. 8 years at a job making minimum wage was proof that I loved what I did. Now I am enjoying getting my kids. They aggravate me so much after school when the two fight, but I love them and wouldn't trade it for the world, but with bills and tuition, I need the money. I will definitely take your advice. Thank you everyone! Ellen F.

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D.B.

answers from Charlotte on

I want to tell you that what really matters is how the parents felt about you. The people at your job only think about themselves. It's amazing how the idea of "what have you done for me lately" (like the past 5 minutes) pervades poor management. Try not to let it get you down.

If you can contact these parents whose kids have graduated from your center, tell them that you are looking for a job. Also try to get on in the public school system. If you could work school hours, it would help.

Good luck,
Dawn

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S.T.

answers from Nashville on

have you looked into getting a job in the school system where your children go to school? I work at an elementary school, and when my little guy (he's 3 now) is old enough, he will attend the school I work at.

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C.W.

answers from Santa Barbara on

I think it is fantastic that you are still in contact with the parents! That speaks volumes about you.

With regard to the job hunt...did you follow up with the company after (send a thank you and check on status)? Have many companies in your rotation that you are looking for, be persistent and creative!.

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C.M.

answers from Johnson City on

I totally understand your frustration. In today's times for anyone to stay at a job for 8 years is a big deal! Try to continue taking solace in the fact that you did make a difference and the parents recognize that.

I would LOVE to be able to pick my kids up from school everyday. You say you want to be able to continue doing that. The only work from home job I can think of that you might be able to do is child care. You obviously have a ton of experience. At minimum wage plus paying childcare for your kids, you might even only have to watch one or two kids and still make more money.

GL in the job hunt!

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J.S.

answers from St. Louis on

I hear ya on having to work to make ends meet. I went part time to be with my boys more after having my second child and it is rough. I do not hardly make enough to really contribute to bills or anything. I basically work to pay for child care on the 3 days that I DO work! I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world though. Is there anything extra you can do to continue to stay home? Coupons, buy generic, cut minutes on the cell phone plan, carpool, go down to one car? Or have you considered a career change? Maybe try to get on at a school like the other mama suggested? My sister works in the cafeteria at a school and is off when her kiddos are. Just a thought. Good luck with whatever you decide and enjoy the extra time with your kids while you can!!

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P.S.

answers from Houston on

I second Carla's suggestion...can you do childcare in your home? Call up the parents and let them know your situation and plans. Ask them if they know any parents who might need your type of care for their children. It'll be your business so you can be selective in ages and types of children. And rates!

My son went to a Mother's Day Out program and the hours was always between school hours. So anyone MDO teacher who had their own child in school was always available to drop off and pick up before they had to be at work. Can you look into a program like that? Call up some churches and see if they any kind of MDO programs you can apply for as a teacher.

gl!

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L.W.

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You DID make a difference. Each day, my son comes home from pre-school and depending on which teacher he had, I will know what kind of mood he comes home in. Mrs. S...great mood, happy boy. Mrs. X...I don't like school, it's boring! It makes a huge difference to families.

Have you considered watching even one or two little ones in your home? With your experience, you could negotiate being able to pick your own up with them along in the car, charge $40 or $50 a day for great, warm, involved child care and make a big difference in the budget...maybe even just three days a week - it can be hard for parents to find PT care and it may work great for you.

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