hi,my name is M. i've been with my husband about almost 41/2 years i got pregnant twice but they haven't made it ,i lost the first one in 2009 they did an dultrasound and no heart beat and baby wasn't growing. the second one was in 2010 and it was growing in my rigth fellopian tube . it has been a while and i was with ubnormal periods got treated by my doctor and now i have a while that am getting my period on time andam traying to become pregnant at the end of this year or beginings of the year 2013 what am i doing wrong that i dont get pregnant.. and at some point i get sad cause i have a baby of my own from a previouse relationship and he came out find and he is already 12 years old and is sad cause he tells me he wants a baby brother and a baby sister is so hard but sometimes i just tell him that is not the right moment.. can someone give me advice thank u
M.,
I am sorry for your losses. I know how it feels. I don't know what is causing your problems. I would go to your OBGYN and have them evaluate you-----also, just relaxing and not trying so hard can help you to get pregnant. Stress plays a big role in life and you should have as little of stress as you can. Best wishes to you and I hope you get pregnant really soon~!
It could be a million different things. Some easily treated. I would look into a doctor that will help you in figuring out what is going on.
Agreed the best advice will come from your doctor. However lots of my friends have had great luck with the over-the-counter ovulation prediction tests. They are in the same ilse as pregnancy tests at the grocery store. Its a kit and you take a test each day and it can help pin point exactly when you ovulate so you know exactly when to try the hardest. Good luck!
I would just caution you to have your doctor check your other fallopian tube also. Once you've had one ectopic pregnancy, it's possible that you may have another. That happened to me and we ended up having to do in vitro fertilization. So discuss your tube health with the doctor, since you may only have one tube at the moment anyway, right? (We had a very good experience with IVF, if you end up having to go that route, by the way).
You do get pregnant-you just don't stay pregnant-very sorry for what you are going through-try taking one baby aspirin (81mg) a day-see if that helps-God bless you.
I'm so sorry for the losses. I have had 4 miscarriages and they are so hard emotionally and physically on both yourself, and for the family. I can't even imagine what a ecotopic pregnancy would be like. I would go to my OB and have them so tests to find out of there is a obvious problem, and I would explain to your 12 year old son exactly what is going on, and a sibling might not be in the cards for your family, but you are going to have testing to see if they can figure out what the problem. He's old enough to know the truth, is realy language.
Good luck to you!!
Dear M.,
I am sorry to hear about your losses. Could you openly talk to your child about the problems you had? He is totally old enough to understand, and it might make your relationship even closer. Good Luck with having another one!
I just wanted to send a hug your way ..... I am thinking that you have talked with your OB - just wishing you the best ....
