J.M.
Hi SH:
Us Mothers think of EVERYTHING don't we? lol. We try to cover all the bases.All the little WHAT IFS.This sounds like its going to be quite the adventure for your daughter.Tell your hubby,to be prepared,as she will go through some home sickness in that time.She will probably get a little teary eyed,for you and her brother.It will be A time she won't soon forget. It's going to be wonderful for bonding with her daddy.It's my thought,that shes to mature to take in the mens restroom.It would be one thing,if she were 2 or 3,or if the mens restrooms all had stall doors,but I couldn't subject her to a row of men,with their penises hanging out of their pants in front of her.She's now old enough to notice the difference,and she doesn't want to be embarrassed.They will be on the plane for several hours,and only one can fit in that bathroom.There your husband can walk her,instruct her,and wait outside the door.I would have him make sure BOTH use the restroom,just before landing,so they won't have to worry about going at the airport.I'm assuming,that once they get to where family is,there will be some female relatives.I'd simply make sure, that he took one of them with them,when sight-seeing,or going out to eat.Maybe pick someone your daughter has warmed up to,in a short time,and trusts.She can keep an eye on your daughter,while your hubby uses the restroom,and take her in the ladies as well.If he times things right, when he is out alone with her,he shouldn't have to worry.If he gets stuck,in the airport or cafe,ask A stewardess,or waitress to take her and wait outside the bathroom door for her.Your son will miss his sister,so I wouldn't tell him to far in advance,as this will make him fret,before she's even absent.The day before or day of,I'd let him know, that you and he are going to do some special things together,and sis and daddy are to.I'd let him talk to her via phone calls,while shes gone. This will make it easier for both,and they can share all their tales of fun times with each other. I know this is difficult for you.I use to bawl every time I sent my sons to their dads,two weeks out of the summer.Our children are most precious,and we take such comfort,in having them close to us.Say A little prayer for their safe return back to you.I'll say a little one here for them to.God will watch over them for you. :) Take care,and have A wonderful time with your darlin son. J. M