C.A.
I understand your feelings of resentment. I am LDS (mormon),my husband is not. I, as many men and women, think before marriage, that having two separate beliefs is no big deal if you love each other, but when children get in the mix and you want the best for them (as you believe to be the best) it is very difficult. Fortunately, at this point, my husband chooses not to go to any church and supports me in bringing all the children with me, but I cringe at the thought that someday that may change. It is hurtful that he does not come with the rest of the family, because my idea of a family is not to be divided by religion;unfortunately it happens and you have to make the best of it.
I would suggest that you take some time to think about why your religion is important to you and what you want your children to understand about it, then talk with your husband and find out why his religion is so important to him.
Do you attend any church services or events with your husband? If not, do it to support him, and ask him to the same for you in return. Marriage is about working together and sacrificing and sometimes doing something for the other person that you wouldn't normally do.