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OKAY, she will have to sit down and write down every chore. Then break each chore up as to what can be given to him. The kids will be his legs and his helpers. So, Saturday and Sunday are your days off or maybe you would prefer to have two school days.
But on these days, dad and the kids do everything. Dad can do dinner. Get him in the kitchen where he can cut stuff up and the kids will love helping to carry it to the stove. He will be an armchair general. On these two days that dad and the kids cook, make it something simple. Like burgers and fries. Spaghetti and use premade sauce in the jar. Dad will coach the kids through cleaning up.
Dad can sit in the living room and armchair general the kids through vaccuming and picking up. They can also fold laundry while watching tv. There is a lot that dad can do with one leg.
He can also get up in the morning with them and get them off to school and supervise breaksfast. Get easy things for breaksfast. Cereal, lots of cereal. The kids can cook for dad. One or two times of showing the twelve year old how to fry eggs and he will be a pro. My 12 year old boy makes scrambled eggs, toast, egg salad, tuna salad. And, cuts up vegetables and can hook up a mean stir fry.
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