B.M.
Hi M.,
I thought of two things that may help. 1). If she has a church she goes to they may have a fund that could help her. 2). You could start an account at a local bank for donations for her sons care, then send out an email or letter with relevant info about the child and direct donations to that bank. Your local bank should know how to do all of the paperwork needed. In closing, with moms permission, try to get the local news involved. I have seen enormous support for families happen when the word gets out about a family in crisis. Best wishes to your Friend and her child.