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Hi S.,
I similar problems, plus I had always tended to be about 10 pounds over wieght, which I never fussed or worried about, but earlier this year I quite smoking and packed on another 10 pounds. I became very depressed and sensitive about my weight.
So, two months ago I had a tummy tuck and Lipo on my hips (more to reshape them than anything).
I am so very very happy with the results. For me, I do not regret it a bit.
However, let me be honest with you. Recovery only took a month. But the first two or three days was no picnic. I took my pain meds on schedule, so I was not actually in pain, but there was discomfort.
It depressed me to be stuck in the house those first few days and I could not pick up anything (including my daughter) for a full week! This really broke my heart, becasause anytime she fell or wanted me to pick her up for comforting, it had to be the Nanny that comforted her. This was hard emotionally for me, but like I said it was only a week.
I had a C-section with her, and the surgery was a lot like that. Not so bad and every day got better and better.
Cleaning the incision and wearing the Surgery Girdle for a month day and night was a pain, but in the end (for me atleast), it was totally worth it.
i love the way I look and since it was not cheap, that is my incintive to keep my body this way. As soon as my doctor cleared me for excersise, I joined Curves. I choose them becasause as a Mom, it's easier to find 30 minutes three times a week than any other gym schedule. Also, I don't consider myself dieting, but I did cut out all sweets and watch what I eat closely. As soon as the surgery was over, I had already lost 8 pounds. Since then because of my healthier lifestyle, I continue to drop a pound every week or so. But even though that doesn't sound like a lot, having a flat stomach makes all the difference. I look so much better.
So, let me just say although there were negatives. The time, the lay up in your house, and the tiny scars, but in my case. i love it. The results are fabulous.
One more thing. The area around my hips where they went in is still numb. Just like a C-section there were nerve endings involved. Now I am told the feeling might eventually come back to those areas, but my friend who had the same procedure 6 months before me still does not have feeling in that area. So, do be warned about that. But even still, I do not regret the procedure.
Good luck in all you do including this. God Bless you and yours.
If you have any other questions that I might not have answered please feel free to send me another message. I would be happy to help you in any way I can.