Dear M.,
I can certainly appreciate how you must feel after having done all you can do to stay in shape only to find that child bearing has left it's imprint upon your body. However, it's for that reason that I would encourage you to consider whether your children would like to have a slightly droopy and saggy Mother who is alive and well or one who looks absolutely fabulous in her coffin. I'm sure Kanye West would be glad to tell you since his mother died having such surgery not long ago. Here is a clip of an article I read about the incident and what the experts recommend:
The top surgical procedures were liposuction, 403,684 procedures; breast augmentation, 383,886; eyelid surgery, 209,999; abdominoplasy, 172,457; and breast reduction, 145,822. More than 3.1 million non-surgical Botox procedures were performed last year, according to the ASAPS.
Ablaza requires all of her patients, regardless of age, to get medical clearance from their personal physicians, and to have chest X-rays and EKGs, prior to agreeing to perform surgery.
Conditions such as heart disease, high blood pressure and diabetes increase the risk of complications during cosmetic procedures, as do certain lifestyle choices, such as smoking, and medications, such as oral contraceptives, she said.
People who are thinking of getting cosmetic procedures should make sure they only work with board-certified plastic surgeons with hospital privileges, Ablaza said.
“We want to make sure that people understand it’s about safety, using a board-certified surgeon at an accredited facility and operating on a healthy person with medical clearance,” she said. “You can’t eliminate all risks, but you can diminish them by not doing too many procedures at one time and by screening for medical conditions beforehand.”
I hope you find this info helpful. Take care and make sure you don't go looking for a bargain price when selecting your surgeon, it could cost you much more than your wonderful husband and two children would want to pay.
;-) (Not preaching to, but praying for you.)