Oh geez.... so it sounds like your Husband goes around TELLING other people this.... BECAUSE, other people, out of manners, don't usually just go around critiquing someone else's Wife... unless the Husband already did so... and so then the others (HIS friends in this case), then feel at liberty... to tell him this too.
See what I mean?
I think... it is your HUSBAND... that is the one... that has a "problem" with this and he is gossiping/critiquing YOU to others.
And after all.... the "other's" in this case... is HIS friends. So, birds of a feather....
Sorry, but you have a busy life and I don't blame you for not being the life of a party. Geez... for your Husband to insinuate that you then "don't care for this lifestyle...." is SO ignorant!
The nerve of him!
My Husband a few times told me "You're not cut out to be a Mommy are you?" and I said WHY do you think that? And he said "Because you get so frazzled and rush around all the time and then can't even relax..."
UM... yah, right. I do that, while HE just sits around doing his man things like sitting down and watching TV and watching ME rush around. Dear me dear... thanks for helping!
No... your Husband, to me... is going around to HIS friends, airing his criticisms of you, to others. To HIS friends. Note that. HIS friends... whom all agree with him... as he told you.
TELL your Husband... just because he "thinks" something... it DOES.NOT.MAKE.IT.FACT.
Unless... he is a super uber fortune telling genius.
all the best,
Susan