Hi M.,
My name is M. I have been married for 8 years and together with my husband for 9 years it is no an eeezzz task starting a family and marriage at the same time, trust me I did it my oldest son is 8 my other son 6 1/2 and our baby is 7 months first let me ask you, be true to yourself here burtally honest it depends on the lie? and how bad you want to make the marriage to work, it also depends on how bad he wants it to work, it is really hard but my advise really is a book called or I should say it a way of life "The five Love Lanuages" I plan on starting school for Family & marriage counseling.
I will be using that book as my templet for my counceling. My husband & I use it, believe in it and swear by it, along with God as our foundation you cant go wrong. But really you both have to want it, if he is cheating or lied about were he is or something you need to get to the root of that issue before anything can go right. just make sure your baby is in a safe healthy place. My husband cares so much for our kids that sometimes i get pushed aside so I always tell him "if we are not ok our kids will not be ok" even if we were to seperate the kids would suffer so the most important thing # 1 is make sure you have a safe place for the baby then work together to make each other happy and the family will start there.Your trust will come back after you see him treating the situation with more respect. But really get the book it will help I really swear by it really. let me know how things go you can always email me @ ____@____.com good luck K.I.T God bless M.